Is A Small Engagement Ring Better Than A Big one?| Wedding

Is A Small Engagement Ring Better Than A Big One?

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A question as old as time – does size matter? Is a small engagement ring better than a big one? Let’s see what really matters.

Bigger is better, right? 

In a society where size matters, you would be forgiven for assuming that this is the case, especially where an engagement band is concerned. After all, the diamond is a sign of your love and commitment, so you want it to stand out. You want everyone, your other half included, to know how much you care.

The problem with this logic is that it’s flawed. Yes, a big ring is a wise choice if that’s what you’re into, yet it doesn’t downgrade small engagement bands. If anything, the latter is as incredible, if not more so than massive rocks.

Here’s why.

It’s About The Clarity

The main feature of a diamond is clarity, not the size. Customers driven by love conflate the two, partly because diamonds are confusing and partly because suppliers push the myth. However, is happy to put the falsehood to bed by highlighting that certain characteristics dictate the quality, and they aren’t easy to see. Regarding VVS stones, even the experts require a 10x microscope to classify them, which proves that it’s not about the size. It’s about the small features that have a huge impact on the jewel, and that’s well worth remembering.

Small Is Affordable

The average cost that a couple is willing to spend on a ring in the UK is £1,500, according to That figure is much lower than the amount you’re expected to fork out – three months of your salary – based on the median wage of £27,000 a year. Thankfully, shoppers are beginning to realise that there’s no reason to splash out an eye-watering amount of a rock, and small rings are to blame. The fact that they are not as expensive, yet are similar in quality, is undoubtedly why they’re popular.

Comfort Is King

Your significant other has to wear the band for the rest of their life. With that in mind, it should fit snugly without being too tight or uncomfortable. Sadly, big rings have to be a particular size to hold the weight and girth of the gem. Sure, you can tweak it so that it’s more comfortable, yet there’s only so much a jeweller can do. Therefore, if your SO has slim fingers, it could be better for their future health if the engagement ring doesn’t cut off the blood supply to their hand!


Fixes and repairs are the last things on your mind when you’re shopping for a diamond. Isn’t compressed Carbon to be the hardest substance on the planet?! Although it is, it’s not indestructible, and an exposed stone can suffer from scratches. You won’t be able to break it as only another diamond can cut it, yet you could knock it loose from its mount. This happens with big rings since the jewel is tall and exposed to the elements. If your partner works with their hands or has an active hobby, a small rock will save you a fortune in maintenance fees.

Is bigger better?

Love Lilla xx

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